Our beloved shepherd dog died last month. Danté was not only a valiant sentinel, he was a faithful companion.
We were bereft.
Made worse by the headlines.
Pandemic.
Russia amassing troops at the Ukraine border.
And this week, vineyards and orchards of France hit by frost.
Our son Julien shook us. “Get back in the saddle.” He did the research and leg work.
He put puppy in our arms.
I write about puppy as part of this chronicle because the arrival of a puppy is important.
A kick start. A clown. A new member of the clan. A frolicking, clumsy, vulnerable, new-to-this-world baby. A call to fun.
And a call to order. Puppies require so much of us. Physical care. Discipline. Consistency. Stability. Authority. Fairness. Affection. Play time with their human troop. An introduction to work.
A work dog is essential for a large property. And work is essential for this dog. He will have jobs. Keep boar and deer from ravaging the orchard. Keep stray, unstable dog packs from colonizing the front porch. Keep unknown visitors at bay until we can suss them out. Alert us to thieves at the plum trees. Circle the compound at night.
On puppy’s second evening here I sat at a southern wall, my winter sun trap. A warm spot out of a chill northern wind. The northern wind reminded me of everything that could go wrong. And that somethings will definitely go wrong, someday.
Puppy curled up against my legs, also absorbing the heat. I thought about his name.
Strider. The speech by Aragorn (Strider) before the final battle in Lord of the Rings. “But It Is Not This Day.”
Strider reminds me that one day or another catastrophe is coming. Something is always coming. To shove that knowledge under the rug is bad strategy.
Now is the time for us to instill discipline in this puppy who will grow big and tough as a wolf, so he knows friend from foe and proper action at the proper moment. That requires a modicum of self mastery. The Trainer once told me, “We don’t train the dog. We train the people. If the people are straight, the dog will be straight.”
Human work. Constant aim. Aiming for rectitude; the kind of person who builds a bulwark of character step-by-step, to know right action on the day the winds go cold.
And yet.
“But It Is Not This Day.” A time of peace is a grand, grand thing. Today is a building day. We train, but it’s not a day of war. We can make plans for the future. The pantry is full. Family intact. Barbarians held off. The health to work. Moments of serenity. Today Strider is snoozing at our feet, warm in the sun.





5 thoughts on “The Good Shepherd”
Thank you for your news. This message of hope and renewal is so welcome, so essential to happiness.
Dear Mary, dear all,
I feel so sorry for the loss of your friend and sentinel dog. He seemed to be to live for ever with you.
I wish I could be there among you to share thoughts and sun blink and this special stream that you have built during all these years…
Hmmm hope my English is , well, English enough.
Big hug to all!
Sorry to hear about Dante, hard to say Goodbye to a trusted Guardian.
Puppies and grandkids help us with the losses in life, reminding us of the joy amongst the sadness.
Hugs across the pond.
So lovely, Mary! Especially the way Dante watched over Noah. And I love what the trainer had to say about humans and dogs. And finally, I love the way you have settled your shoulders to face what the future will bring, in all of its shapes and flavors and colors. As we have probably said to each other somewhere along the way, it’s not what happens that matters: it’s how you respond to it.
We have some nice news here: Tim and his fiancee Henley now live at 92 Pinehurst, just half a block a way from us, which will be especially convenient when Henley has their son late in June! I can’t wait to join the blessed ranks of The Grandmothers! Sending big hugs to all of you at La Tourbeille. XXX
lovely pictures and post, welcome Strider!